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blackbirdblog) wrote2013-12-20 09:16 am
blackbirdblog) wrote2013-12-20 09:16 am
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Friday 12/13/2013 -- KW came over for dinner at my place. It was slightly awkward when he first arrived and he made a comment that a week was too long between visits (even though it had only been 5 days). I explained how it takes me a little while to re-acclimate after not seeing a person for a while, and I think he agreed on that, but I am really not sure what he meant. We checked out the City Paper and talked about going out, but in the end we just sat on the sofa and talked and then he stayed over but had to leave kind of early for a meeting.
The next day he invited me to join him at a Las Vegas themed birthday party, but I had to work the retail job so I could not.
Sunday 12/15/2013 -- KW invited me to join him and his sister's family for their Christmas celebration with their father and step-mother. A lot of people might think this meant something serious, but I got the impression he brings friends home a lot. Maybe they had the tickets for a while because he'd been dating someone else? Who knows. It did seem way early to meet his family, but it was a nice invitation so I accepted. First everyone went to a show at the CT and then back to his sister's house for dinner, drinks, and festivities. His family was really great--super nice, relaxed, funny, interesting, and also very attractive people. His step-mother gave me gifts--a scarf and a pair of slippers--and I had a wonderful time with everyone. KW brought me home and spent the night at my place, but had to leave early in the morning for work.
Tuesday 12/17/2013 -- KW invited me to go on a full moon hike with some friends in NP. It didn't start until 8:00 and one girl was late so we stood around for half an hour and it was really cold. I was annoyed with myself for saying yes (I hate the cold) and then as we were about to leave for the hike the trip leader says we will cover about 6 miles and it will take 2+ hours! I wanted to cry as we walked out of the parking lot. Luckily, KW had packed some whiskey and I said give me some now! I decided it was a great opportunity for a hike in the snow under the moonlight and I do love the woods so I made the best of it, though I was exhausted by the end. KW made it great by singing songs and entertaining me all along the way. Afterward we all went for a beer. Back at KW's place, he suggested I stay over and I declined, which was difficult because of course I wanted to stay with him. It just seems like too much...I still need to maintain some distance so I don't get too caught up. Honestly, it feels like we're moving into some kind of friend zone since we have not slept together. In my experience, when a guy does not push for sex it means he is either getting it somewhere else or he doesn't have much drive. Something is going on there. Not sure what, but I am definitely curious.
Now KW's mom is in town and he's taking 10 days off work, plus Christmas is next week, so I am not sure how much to stay in touch. My flight instincts are kicking in big time.
The next day he invited me to join him at a Las Vegas themed birthday party, but I had to work the retail job so I could not.
Sunday 12/15/2013 -- KW invited me to join him and his sister's family for their Christmas celebration with their father and step-mother. A lot of people might think this meant something serious, but I got the impression he brings friends home a lot. Maybe they had the tickets for a while because he'd been dating someone else? Who knows. It did seem way early to meet his family, but it was a nice invitation so I accepted. First everyone went to a show at the CT and then back to his sister's house for dinner, drinks, and festivities. His family was really great--super nice, relaxed, funny, interesting, and also very attractive people. His step-mother gave me gifts--a scarf and a pair of slippers--and I had a wonderful time with everyone. KW brought me home and spent the night at my place, but had to leave early in the morning for work.
Tuesday 12/17/2013 -- KW invited me to go on a full moon hike with some friends in NP. It didn't start until 8:00 and one girl was late so we stood around for half an hour and it was really cold. I was annoyed with myself for saying yes (I hate the cold) and then as we were about to leave for the hike the trip leader says we will cover about 6 miles and it will take 2+ hours! I wanted to cry as we walked out of the parking lot. Luckily, KW had packed some whiskey and I said give me some now! I decided it was a great opportunity for a hike in the snow under the moonlight and I do love the woods so I made the best of it, though I was exhausted by the end. KW made it great by singing songs and entertaining me all along the way. Afterward we all went for a beer. Back at KW's place, he suggested I stay over and I declined, which was difficult because of course I wanted to stay with him. It just seems like too much...I still need to maintain some distance so I don't get too caught up. Honestly, it feels like we're moving into some kind of friend zone since we have not slept together. In my experience, when a guy does not push for sex it means he is either getting it somewhere else or he doesn't have much drive. Something is going on there. Not sure what, but I am definitely curious.
Now KW's mom is in town and he's taking 10 days off work, plus Christmas is next week, so I am not sure how much to stay in touch. My flight instincts are kicking in big time.